Saturday, April 9, 2011

Stubborn Fucking Ass!!!!!!!!!

I just dont fucking understand how someone (a male friend of mine) can be fucking on unemployment and be fine with sitting on his ass all day everyday and let his fiance (who was on unemployment but got dropped and working barely half-time) pick up all the bills.  She is ready to walk out on him!  I really dont blame her I know what its like.  Tim and I both spent I dont know how long on the phone with him, Tim was talking to him calmly and I was yelling at him.  He kept telling us that he has been applying for jobs but he does it when she is asleep, well I called bullshit on that and he wouldnt pull up the online apps to prove it either.  He should be out there pounding the fucking pavement every fucking day till he finds a job! He told me there are no options for jobs over there, well bullshit with that too!  I was online looking for jobs for his fiance and found like 10 or more in less the 15 minutes!  If it was Tim and I going through this right now Tim would lose everything electronic till he got a fucking job and he knows that.  If I was her I would get rid of his PS3, his computer and everything!  But then that is just me. 

Anyway I just got a text message from her and they talked after we got off the phone and they are both going out Monday and pound the pavement and find her a better job with more hours and him a job! God I sure hope we really did get it through his head and he does get a job.  I love them both and as much as I would hate to see them split I understand and doubt that I would be able to stay friends with him if he loses her over something this stupid.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Life Goes On With Or Without You

As much as I would love to stay in bed every morning and never get up I know that I have to.  I have people that depend on me, mainly my son.  It seems that we are always getting the short end of the stick too. 

So in January Tim's fathers social security check was accidently deposited into our account cause apparently Tim and his father both updated checking account info around the same time.  Any way when we first brought it to their attention they threatened to have us arrested for their mistake!  Anyway... we didnt hear from them till we recieved a letter from them stating they were listing it as an overpayment on Tim's and Dante's checks, ok fine so now all I had to do was write out a check to them and send it to them, well done.  Well then a month later there is no cashing of the check and we contacted them and they never recieved it so I went online and put a stop payment on it and listed it as lost.  So when we were in Bend on the 10th of March we went into the local office and wrote a new check and handed it over and they gave us proof of payment and everything.  Well a week later it was cashed, thank god!  Well then we recieve a letter stating that Tim's and Dante's checks are going to be docked to pay back the money so of course I panic and Tim calls them only to be told that its fine that that letter was auto sent and didnt reflect the payment we made, ok so we are safe right.  Well on April 1st the checks are deposited into my account and I write out all of the checks to pay the bills.  Well then Saturday morning, the 2nd, I wake up to only check my email and find a notification from my bank stating that I have no money and actually Im in the red for almost $200!  I freak!  Of course with it being a Saturday we cant do a fucking thing.  So Im crying and upset and for the only time in my life I have to ask my grandfather for money.  Of course I get a lecture from him and he was totally in the wrong though saying that I shouldnt use online banking but if it wasnt for the online banking I would have never known about it to begin with.  I mean how does a check that has a stop payment on it still get fucking cashed!  Anyway when Monday came around Tim called Social Security and they told him that they show that only one check, the last one we wrote out, was cashed.  Anyway me not think I didnt bother to check my account till after he called.  When I finally checked it the money was back it there!  OMG I have never been so fucking happy to log onto my account lol.  Anyway I have so been thinking about how this could have happened and Im wondering that since it went through on a Saturday that the computer just wasnt able to catch it till Monday. 

Also we are having difficulties in potty training our 27 month old son.  One week he is all excited about sitting on the potty and will even sneak off and we catch him sitting on it, fully clothed, so we pull his pants down and remove his diaper and he will sit there for a few minutes then get off.  Well then the next week he acts as if he is terrified of it!  Like today, when he went to take a bath he kept seeing pee pee so I put his poty cushion on the toilet and his stool in front of it and he freaked.  He started backing our of the bathroom almost ready to cry.  Ugg I knew that little boys can be stubborn when it comes to this but come on! 

I just dont know anymore what to do.